I adopted my teens in 2014. They are my husbands biological kids that there bio mom didn’t “want” anymore.
And it has been RAINBOWS AND CUPCAKES EVER SINCE!!!
Okay! Okay, that’s crap as you can imagine. They have been the devils advocates. I cannot like there direction or it means I am staring at them!!
I promise you I think I might be loosing my Fucking mind… When they first moved in with us the two older boys decided to leave the house without telling anyone and they didn’t have phones… These kids have been running around the streets at there bio mom house for years!! THEY LOST THE FUCKING MINDS!!!
I have tried to install in them respect, discipline, and just being actual people but i cant see much growth and after 4 years and so much dedication to put full focus on them, I have decided to take the next step!
LET THEM SCREW THERE OWNS LIVES UP! I mean what else i am supposed to do, I have 4 other children younger and need more attention.
I cannot continue to put there needs above mine or the little ones any more.
But the thing that hurts the most is seeing them make these dramatic and drastic decisions for themselves and not being able to tell them anything!
So if you are like me and you have teens or children for that matter, I wish you all the luck.. all the sage….. and all the blessings.. YOU ARE GOING TO NEED IT
