When I was 13 years old my mother asked me if I wanted kids when I got older.
Of coarse! I want 7 kids. I said so naive and so much more to learn in life
And my looked at me crazy and said you are crazy!!
Never in a million years did I think I was being heard from a higher power! You see my husband has 3 kids with another woman before our relationship! they are great kids, but when there mom gave them up and signed her writes away, we thought she would still be apart of the kids life!
Or so we thought!
When I say the kids moved down on December 24, 2014, and not a day later there biological mother was no where to be found, is an understatement. Day by day goes by and then week by week, then month by month!
I watched these kids get more angry at life. When i finally decided to jump in on the parenting, because, I love my husband, he was failing them right in front of my eyes! They started to go from making all D’s and F’s in school to all A’s and B’s. Even though grades were the last of there problems it was something they could control!
I sat there day in and day out teaching them life lessons. Every mistake was a learning experience for them and me.
Then it happened me and my husband had the talk, the I cant handle this anymore talk, the kids are to much talk, the how can we continue down this path talk.
That’s when I asked his permission to adopt the kids! No it wouldn’t help financially, but I know that those kids needed guidance. They have been left on the end of an abandoned street with no lights in the middle of the night! They are lost and need a place to call home, a person to guide them.
Then I did it! I filed for adoption. Will you believe that is the state of Texas cannot get a hold of the biological parent within 90 days that there kids are basically up for grabs? Not Texas fault, just couldn’t believe they told me OK here, pay $250 for all 3 kids and now you have to wait to “prove” yourself since they live in the same house as you, and then you can change name on birth certificate!!
That was it!
Here we are in the “prove myself stage” and biological mom wants to come out of no where and demand to speak to my almost 18 year old daughter!
Listen ladies, I have been mamma bear for quite some time now, and I refused to let this woman that continuously called my daughter a cunt and a whore for 4 years because my daughter had a baby with her biological mothers boyfriend at 12 years old!!
That’s right you read it correctly! My teenagers biological mother gave her oldest daughter away to a man 3 times her age so he wouldn’t leave there mother! And had the balls to call my daughter names! No thank you!
I only have a few weeks left why would she be calling now! GUESS WHAT HAPPENED! She finally opened her mail from like 2 years ago. She read that I was trying to adopt the kids and she refused to let them go!
Now what I’m about to tell you I’m not to proud of but I told her that if she backed off I wouldn’t press charges on her here in Texas! I know, I know!! But I would never let her take another amazing thing away from MY KIDS! NEVER AGAIN!
Messy Mom Life 